When a person is dead so many things died with him and that is the reason people felt bad about that person and which is immortal is the memories. you just can't escape from the memories of that person so easily because when that person is dead his entire life comes to an end and which remains there is the flash back memories which stays in minds of the people who love him. They will never forget that person because his memories will always help to make him alive, lets just come to that point when anyone die he never expected that he will be dying soon or anything like a warning given by god that I am coming to take you away from your love ones and neither his love ones have expected his death. In my childhood my grand parents use to say that some one died because of his sins and also because god need him more then us but eventually that moment when I got to know about thisTRUTH from my grand parents I was totally despondent that one day they will be dead ,my parents will be dead and I will also be dead. This feeling made me cry that moment just because I can never imagine myself without them and this is grief inside me which cannot fight with this havoc seperation. Yes I can feel this grief today also the moment I think about the situation which is going to come in future and i am not at all capable to just stop this phenomena. Nature is capable to bind us together and also equally capable to seperate us
So I just want to live as much as I want to live until I met with any misfortune in future and I pray to god to make my memories as special as possible so that my love ones will never forget me after I am dead because I will be ALIVE and my beautiful, cherishing and mirthful memories will be alive and then I will proudly feel happy up in the sky to see all of them living happily and there will be no grudges no regrets. So just love your life and live your each day as its your last day............